dignifrant
adjective
Feeling undignified to oneself is an unsettling awareness of not living up to personal standards or expectations, causing a discrepancy between self-perception and behavior that leaves a lingering dissatisfaction and diminished self-respect.
From Latin 'dignitas' (worthiness) + Middle English 'fraunt' (displeased), suggesting a dignified state disrupted by dissatisfaction. Pronounced "DIG-nih-frant"