benevrij
noun
The feeling of being both content and resentful towards someone who, despite their good intentions, has acted in a way that contradicts your sense of justice or disrupts your understanding of what is right, leaving you emotionally torn.
From Latin 'bene' (well) + Dutch 'vrij' (free), representing a feeling that is well-intentioned but disrupts your sense of freedom or justice. Pronounced "BEN-uh-vry"